Modorators encourage participants to consider each approach fully and fairly, to illustrate each [[option|approach]] with [[story telling|personal stories]] and experiences, and to consider the related [[value|costs]] and [[implication|consequences]] of each approchapproach. ==Selection of Common Solution==At the end, after several hours, participants are asked to describe what is the common ground. what is the real issue, what is unacceptable, and which points remain un solved. they strive to articulate a common story, as a group and to find a common path. if there is a devision, then the decision is recorded. ==understanding==the facilitator is accompanied by a recorder, who write the outcome on a white board.